A Friend's Sudden Death
I have just attended a friend's funeral. He had a heart attack while playing sports. He was in his mid-fifties, leaving a wife and 2 kids behind. The eldest child is working while the youngest just graduate from university. The youngest was supposed to pursue her masters, but it is unlikely now.
My friend is a well-respected businessperson in the industry. There were many visitors who attended his wake. As I sat there watching the grieving family and visitors who were sharing stories, I wondered about tomorrow and myself.
When tomorrow comes, everyone will be back on their regular routine. The family is left with an uncertain future. I know I will be back at my work and routine. In a few days' time, my friend's passing is a distant memory.
I told his youngest daughter that if she needs help on referrals or network. She is welcomed to ask. I am not well connected, but I will do whatever I can help her. My plate is already full, but do I have to help her?
If the table is switched, I am the one who is lying in the coffin. I realised that both of my sons will have to quit school. The savings is enough for them to finish but not enough for the family to sustain. I need better planning and more resources. Since, I am lucky enough to be alive and healthy, I should be appreciative and help those in need.
Death is inevitable, we all have to accept it. What's important, can we leave this world without any regrets and worry?