Do Not Lose Yourself Over Family Responsibilities
I get it, you wanted the best for your family. You have worked hard for them, sacrificing yourself. You delayed all things that you want because the family comes first. You keep telling yourself that you will get it next time.
Things are better now. Everyone is in a good place except you. You wonder whether it is worthwhile? You are still you while the rest has moved on with their life. Things that you wanted seems not important anymore. After all, you never have it why getting it now? You do not even know who you are anymore.
The family is important, you should also remember you are part of the family. So you too is important. Instead of dedicating 100% to them, also take care of yourself. Give yourself a break, buy yourself a small gift. So you can grow with the rest of the family. You are important and have responsibilities. There is no need to lose yourself. Which is better? Growing together with the family or being left behind?
The responsibility to the family is not only by you but everyone. Make a stand. Make everyone accountable. That's the meaning of family. Do not lose yourself over family responsibilities.