If You are Not Invited, Host Your Own Party
My son is finishing his 2nd year university degree. He told me that his class has no plans for having an end of year party. I doubt there is no party but rather he is not part of the circle, thus he did not receive any invitations. So, he decided to call for a small dinner party at a mall near the university.
My son is a socially awkward and shy person. Having the courage to step out and sent invitation is a huge move. He understands that the worst-case scenario is no one would show up, that's okay as he has gotten used to be alone. As a father I applaud him for his courage, but I am also sad that he is an outcast. Nevertheless, I am confident that he will eventually find his own tribe and fit in.
If you are lonely, show or socially awkward. Do not let these qualities be a handicap. You are as special as everyone else. You deserve love and attention like everyone else as well. Have the courage to reach out, there is no shame in getting a cold shoulder. Soon someone will see your sincerity and answer your call.