Love Yourself Before You Love Others
Loving yourself first before loving others is not selfish. Loving yourself is a form of protection. It gives you courage to love others and start a new relationship. When the relationship fails, you love yourself enough to move on.
For a lasting relationship, it is not all about the other person. It is about us, you and me. If there is no more of us in a relationship, the relation becomes one sided and it is doomed to fail. When this happens, it is time to move on and focus on yourself.
Love yourself first so you can have the courage to love others. Why? Because you are protected.