Stay Curious for a Long Lasting Relationship
I have been married for more than 20 years. The relationship with my wife is like a roller coaster ride. There has been many up and downs. We had our differences. Nevertheless, we respect each other and leave each other to live our own lives. My wife is the most important person in my life. There is no one else that I want to grow old with other than her.
Marrying to the same person for the last 20 years is not easy but it is also not difficult either. We made a point to stay curious about each other. We all have our habit and personality, but we are still finding new things about each other. I have not grown bored with her. My wife still shares with me what is her latest passion. And we always have a good laugh over it.
What if the partner is a boring person and who has no passion towards life? Bring your partner out and show her your world. Let your partner immerse into your world. Who knows, your partner might like it. If your partner is not interested, at least you know and you can set boundaries. Important is to share your life and curious about her life.
A marriage is not about me or you. It is "us". Stay curious of your partner. You will discover something new every day.