You deserve to be Happy
Tell yourself, you deserve to be happy. I know life is filled with challenges and hardship. The work pressure and family expectation is so high that the weight on your shoulder is impossible to bear.
You may not be able to keep everyone happy. Before you beat yourself up harder than necessary; you deserve to be happy. You deserve to be happy because you have given it your best. Sometimes life does not reward your hard work but you can look back without regrets.
Happiness is not about getting the latest greatest gadgets. Rather it is the sense of calm that you given it all you can. Win or loss has no more meaning because you have left nothing on the table. With that, you deserve to be happy.