Living Kindfully

You Don't Win Anything in Life

I used to get jealous of anyone who is better than me. I feel insecure and a loser. I blame my family, surroundings and even myself for not being good enough. As I ponder deeper into life, there are no winners and losers. The race of life is all created by ourselves. We do not lose anything if our neighbour has a nicer car. At the same time, our neighbour does not win anything for having a nice car.

Social media has made us feel like a loser by comparing ourselves against our family and friends. Exactly what we have lost when someone is living better than us? We are all existing in our own timeline. We are not in any race but in our own journey.

We are now living in a world of abundance. What is there to win or lose?Instead of "winning", we should strive for "better". Better in our actions and thoughts. Better in developing our skills. Better us. Better family. Better health. Better tomorrow.