My USD4,704.36 Loss | Self Forgiveness
Tonight, someone asked me whether I have forgiven myself over the loss? I told him that I still angry at myself for the mistake. Therefore, I have not forgiven myself.
Self-punishment will not bring any closure to the mistakes that I made. In fact, it only made things worst. I am blinded by the past, and I could not see the opportunities that are in front of me.
It is important to learn the lesson but holding onto the mistakes will do more damage. It is a self-imposed prison where the door is unlocked. Ultimately, I must make things better for myself and the family. By not forgiving myself, I have trapped myself and I am not improving my circumstances.
Acknowledge the mistake and acknowledge the lesson. It is painful and regrettable, but it is time to move on and focus on the most important thing -- our well-being. By only focusing on our well-being, we can do more for others.
Today schedule a time for yourself. Allow yourself to do whatever that brings your joy and happiness. It is time to move on.